Most of them wonder if it is right to conceive immediately after marriage. Although this is ultimately a personal choice, there are many things one must consider:

Firstly, age: In the last few decades, the count of pregnant ladies between the age group of thirty-five and forty has increased compared to the women who were above forty. It is important for partners who are 35-40 years of age, to conceive immediately after they get married. Since, after thirty-five years of age the sperm count in men reduces and the ovary of a woman contracts, thereby, the fertility in women decreases. This leads to problem in conceiving in woman who are in the age range of 35 to 40 years.

Secondly, financial strength: Make sure to be financially fit before getting married, so that getting pregnant immediately after marriage would not result in sleepless nights. Most women in the US, become pregnant even before marriage, which should be avoided due to moral and financial grounds.

Consult a doctor – Most of the doctors recommend using contraceptive pills to avoid pregnancy just after marriage. This is applicable for women who are 20 to 30 years of age.

Take a decision together – Consent of both the partners is important while planning a baby. A couple should well plan their family even before marriage.

In fact there exists many disagreements in marital life. The key issue is how to resolve them. By keenly following a few steps you can avoid conflicts in your marital life. Proceed to resolve them rightly to help your marriage last longer.

Few basic steps can help solve fights in your marital life. They are:

Firstly, separate complaints from constructive and destructive criticism, and find out which category your conflicts fall into and proceed to solve them.

Secondly, take time to understand the emotional needs of your spouse. Give heed to what your spouse tells you and try to understand the purpose behind it.

Thirdly, learn to speak nonaggressively and nondefensively. Present feelings or facts in a calm and neutral manner, which helps avoid escalation.

Fourthly, stay silent and speak directly without beating around the bush. Be truthful to your spouse and to yourself. Then express what you really feel.

Next, practice the above mentioned four steps perfectly which helps in attaining perfection in your marriage. It is worth following in order to bring about happiness in your married lives.

So, make sure to follow these steps to resolve the conflicts in your marital life. Thereby, you exhibit wellness in all that you do, at home or in your workplace.

“Save my marriage today” is a comprehensive book written by Amy Waterman. This book is written to help people with troubled marriage to show how they can save their marriage before it’s too late.